Kind of an indulgent, masturbatory question today — and if I’m saying that here, it must be extra-true.
I’m a GM probably 95% of the time, but in that 5% (usually my convention games) I don’t really do much more than directly thank the GM or facilitator. Costs nothing but a bit of time, but jeez, we’ve been sitting in a small room together for four hours smelling each other’s farts, it’s the least I can do. But as a GM, I know that those direct thanks are a big deal.
But! If you’re a player who doesn’t know what to give the GM Who Has It All (i.e. me or others like me), here are some ideas:
- Be present. Not just in attendance, but actively engaged in the thing. Put the phone away, ringer on mute.
- Ask how you can help. No really. Ask. Playing is a necessarily inward-focused activity, and I think it can create inward-focused play habits that aren’t conducive to table synergy.
- If you’re not feeling it, say so. I don’t know about other facilitators, but my stoke is heavily reliant on the table’s stoke. If you’re not feeling it, I won’t feel it. If you think you’re hiding your disinterest (out of politeness or whatever), joke’s on you: you’re so not.
- Indulge me in a little debrief after. It’s my one chance to, you know, share in the stoke! It’s nice to come out from under the table and join you folks and pretend I’m a star like you.
I think that’s about all any of us need!
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I enjoy this answer, and the focus on ways the players can make things work better for the GM.
I know what you mean about player stoke. That investment can totally make or break a game.
What does your debrief look like?
Hanging out outside, revisiting the fun parts mostly.
I love debriefs!