I have no idea if the Swedish rules are different. Here are the English rules.

1) The attacker rolls Empathy + Manipulate

2) On a success, the defender will agree to what the attacker asks, if the attacker does something in return.

3) Excess successes are applied as damage to Empathy. If they’re Broken (i.e. Empathy is reduced to 0), they will do it without a compromise.

There is no option to do “stress/agility” damage in the English version. Only Empathy damage.