Brand Robins yeah totally on both counts. I don’t think we need to delve too deep into the meanings of words; I get what you’re saying.
And totally true re con culture and one-shots. “Make the obvious choice” is such good advice under those circumstances, but choices obviate themselves somehow, right? And then, I think/worry, those habits get ingrained.
Then boom, one day you find yourself going through the cliche paces in your home game.