Sandy J-T yeah. Also, you reminded me of something I wanted to mention, and it sucks that I even have to:

This is a public thread. Participation in this might draw attention to you you won’t like. I don’t have any advice I can offer on that other than to a) do whatever you need to be and feel safe and b) document any harassment you may experience via screencap.

I hate that this behavior has even made me have to think about this stuff. But it won’t be the first time for me — it happens a couple times a year.