I feel everything you say, and agree with almost all of it. Which is not surprising at all.
However, I just have to say, with all that meaty substance, the thing my brain keeps getting caught on — in a stupid fashion — is the name.
I’m like “Fantasy The Roleplaying Game” “Post-Modern Magical Realism The Roleplaying Game.” and just noping.
Like, my brain keeps telling me I hate the game because its named GENRE: THE THINGAMABOB.
… I dunno. I’m a monkey.