Just trying to chill things down a bit, Paul.  Sometimes people get their backs up because things have been contentious and divisory in their past, and they project the anticipation of similar arguments into the present.  But there is no “should” anywhere – neither in my reading of your post, nor in reality.  I wouldn’t mind reading your bona fides, actually, but in the long run I think I’d prefer to read about your experiences with specific game systems.