Then of course there is the question: which do you want to be? I wish I had the improv abilities, etc. to be a Star player. I always feel like I wasn’t particularly useful for the game when I am surrounded by Star players. I guess I am probably a Good player? Though I don’t know, it is pretty rare that I get invited to games – generally I have to kick them off/run/invite myself…

(Yes, this is something I struggle with vis-a-vis self-esteem – why do you ask?)