One of the things I find stressful about online discussions around these issues in gaming is that my own expectations are probably pretty singular and weird. If you have been in Marxist-Leninist organizations you have certain assumptions about the discipline that people will bring to these kinds of discussions. For example the ethos of listening and taking seriously others’ criticisms, the ethos of not being timid with comrades (don’t use “it’s kind of problematic” when you mean something else) and the shared understanding of the purpose of the discussion: to change the world. I don’t take any of those for granted in online discussions.